As human beings, we try to choose the easy path in life. Remember back in school, when teachers advised us to attempt the easiest questions first during exams? Even as kids, whenever we were asked to do something, we naturally choose toward the easier tasks. At work, when given options, we often choose the simplest tasks to complete.
Isn’t that right?
This habit of constantly opting for the easy way conditions us to handle only the easy things in life, leaving us unprepared for challenges. When tough times hit, we often crumble, unable to cope, and end up giving up. Surprisingly, this isn’t something we’re taught in schools or colleges. We learn formulas in math, physics, and chemistry, but the real life lessons aren’t part of the curriculum. We don’t learn these lessons willingly – instead, life forces us to face them.
I was a shy kid and never actively participated in school activities, but whenever I was asked to do something, I managed to get it done. I still remember an experience from 4th grade. I wasn’t prepared to lead a group song for an Independence Day program. I was nervous, but my teacher encouraged me by sharing how his teacher had trusted him to lead once, and now they were passing that trust onto me. Guess what? I led the song wonderfully.
Sometimes in our careers or personal lives, we may not be ready to take on certain challenges. But with a little support, we can achieve remarkable things. A small push or bit of guidance can make all the difference.
Do you remember the Imtiyaz from a year and a half ago? I was so nervous in my previous organization when my CEO asked me to dance with my colleagues! But in the last 18 months, I’ve learned more about life than I ever did before—because circumstances pushed me out of my comfort zone.
But here’s my question: why should we wait for life to push us?
Why not prepare ourselves before the challenges arise?
Life has taught me an important lesson: I no longer wait for situations to force my growth. I now focus on preparing myself in advance to face challenges head-on. Not everyone will become a businessperson or an entrepreneur, but everyone can work on themselves. Each of us has something unique to offer. Discover your uniqueness and start investing in it. Don’t rely solely on your job—work on yourself alongside it. Believe me, you can live a better life. Don’t quit your job; you can pursue your passions while working. Once you find your purpose, you won’t waste time scrolling through Facebook or Instagram reels. You’ll start doing your job more efficiently and with a greater sense of fulfillment.
I always remember my mentor’s words: “Life isn’t easy. To make life easier, always choose the harder things.” If you choose the hard things, life will become easier, but if you always choose the easy path, life will get harder. And I’ve found this to be 100% true.
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